”There's no excuse as to why the father can't do 50% of the care after the baby is born.”

This. I’m sick of hearing excuses from losers who think that men are above doing any kind of uncompensated work. They complain about how men are expected to be breadwinners as if we’re still living in the 50s, despite fewer than 20% of moms choosing to be stay at home parents. Most women work too, so why are they still doing the bulk of the childcare even when they also have jobs?