One of the biggest reasons I’m childfree is because I never want to experience being smothered with unwanted attention and having my every move policed, which is something pregnant people routinely have to put up with. Yes, it’s bad to smoke while pregnant, but I guarantee the hypocrites who freak out over things like this also routinely do things that put other people at risk, like driving while drunk or sleep deprived. Yet nobody ever nannies or polices every move they make to loudly point it out. You’ll never convince me that pregnancy is not the single most degrading thing a woman could do in her life.