In case anybody is interested, about 18% of married women with kids are full time stay at home parents, while the other 82% work in some capacity. Yet even when these women work just as much or even more hours than their male partners, they’re still usually the ones doing the bulk of childcare, housework, and emotional labor at home. Why does anybody think this is fair? No wonder so many of us don’t want to get married or have kids at all when all we see is extra unpaid labor.