If they genuinely believed abortion is murder, they would advocate for affordable and accessible birth control, and elective sterilizations for any adult 18+ that wants one. You can’t “murder a fetus” if you can’t get pregnant in the first place. But they’re usually against those things and treat women who avoid pregnancy all together with the same contempt they have for ones who get abortions. It’s almost like they just think motherhood is some sort of compulsory duty for women, and can’t stand seeing us have the freedom to do other things with our lives than make babies and serve men.