1. Assume you automatically have “high value” because you have money or a socially respected job, which is based on the (also incorrect) assuption that most women are shallow gold diggers who care more about these things than actual companionship.

2. Play completely unsubstantiated and illogical “head games” based on something a sketchy dating coach con artist tells you instead of just being honest and genuine.

3. Have bad luck, because, as it turns out, few people (female OR male) like head games and people who play them. And even fewer think highly of a person who makes no efforts.

4. Blame other people for your own shortcomings and lack of logic.